Ahhhh these clarity filled, yet incredibly uncomfortable moments
The ones where you know you’ve outgrown an old version of yourself
You know deep in your bones that you need to choose to let go of aspects of your life that are holding the new you back
The new me is a more feminine woman
Softer in her body (literally & figuratively)
More connected in her mind
Gentler in her spirit
The part of me that has fully come to pass is the woman who previously cared about the model of traditional success
I no longer want to climb the ladder
I no longer wish to save my money for retirement
I no longer dream of doing or being it all
I have this vision I continue to see in my minds eye that is my anchor for where I’m going in life
It’s a bubble I create for my community and people, for my inner and outer circles
This bubble is an oasis from the stresses and strains of traditional life
It’s a place where you can come to rest, or unload your stresses & responsibilities and then go move a bit more freely (if you recharge in the world rather than on your own)
I’m at the center of this bubble, this oasis
I potter around doing random things - reading a book, playing with children, watching the clouds go by, doing yoga or perhaps crocheting
I am busy, yet I am available
I am there to support and guide those who arrive in my bubble and need me
In this vision many things are blurry or uncertain
But one thing is crystal clear
People are not coming to my bubble to receive guidance on how to climb the corporate ladder
Nor are they coming because they need to save money
Nor are they coming to get a quick tip on how to replenish their energy
No sirree bob!!
They are coming because they wish to live more in their rhythms - but can’t quite see a clear path to getting there just yet
They wish to create a life that works for them, rather than them for it - and are willing to do what it takes to make it happen
They wish to stop becoming so they can be… and start being so they can become
We don’t need to fake it til we make it
We just need to be brave enough to be our present selves
Because while old you got you here
Old you will not get you *there*
There being that place your bones are telling you you need to be
The good news: by simply *being* our present selves, our lives will become exactly as we wish them to be
Being your present self takes a hell of a lot of courage
It’s what my future vision bubble oasis provides at scale
It’s the thing currently do in 1:1 coaching
I infuse those who work with me with perspective, a bias to action & a hell of a lot of bravery
Bravery to say no to the things that served the old you
Because current you has worked damn hard to be here
So please, give her the respect she deserves 💕
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